Women from US maybe New York suffers a loss divorce or job loss and gets invited to or inherits a castle in Scotland or England. She is dancing at a ball and keeps looking at a picture of a blonde hair man from days past who is wearing here a red tartan. Giving the impressions that she new him from a past life.
Made of Honor maybe?
http://www.kevinmckiddonline.com/made-of-honor.html#.WlpSf6inGDI
First movie that came to mind was Kate and Leopold. But he has dark hair but figured I’d leave this here anyway