I saw a movie on TV in 1994. I think it was made in the late 80s early 90s. The only scene I can remember: A white 40-ish man is standing on the balcony of his highrise apartment in underwear. He has binoculars and he is looking into the apartments of the high-rises around him. He begins to masturbate. He sees a woman who has just put her child to bed. She sees him too and they masturbate together.