I remember the movie scene in an (Italian) restaurant. Maybe a pizzeria? There is a fight about to start. A number of people are in the place. The shot freezes, and gets darker, except for a circle around one person. He (she) starts to talk about his life, and why he is here now. This is repeated several times. It is for sure an italian movie, and I have seen it like 30 years ago.

A south american or italian movie. Style like Garcia Marques. In a village all died people (grandfathers, grandmothers etc.) are still walking around and the people in the village live with them and comunicate with them. They sit on the table for dinner, and join conversations. Kind of Magic Realism.