I think this movie came out in the 90s. It is in English and color. It had something to do with a childhood friend of this guy gets invited to his party. The guy is really awkward and doesn’t fit in with the in-crowd. He is always ordering rum and cokes. His friend that invites him is successful and engaged I think.
Towards the end of the movie the two guys end up having sex I think.
Chuck & Buck (2000) – http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0200530/
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