it was in colour and it was vhs (I think) maybe dvd…I don’t remember any actors specifically but it was about a man and a woman (maybe married) and they at least she lived in an island with a lot of other people, one day the man is at the island and a boy goes back to the city with him (his son probably) to live with him…at one point the man and kid talk about what it means to be adolescent…
I found it! It was called Jungle 2 Jungle
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