I saw snippets of this movie on either Lifetime or Oxygen, where this girl is in a club sort of slumped in a corner while there are strobes flashing, and she looks across the club and sees a guy staring at her. I got the impression that he was a ghost? Later she is seen in a flashback where she’s lying in bed with this guy, wearing his shirt and tossing a ball up and down. Other scenes suggest that she was looking for this guy, or being haunted by him, or something. I saw it back in 2004, and a few years later saw a preview for it on one of those said channels and didn’t take the opportunity to write down the title.